"BFFs" by Beach Day // Native Echoes (Out 8.19.14 via Kanine Records)

Well, if you’re looking for dreamy, laid back guitar pop to get you through the dog days of summer, Beach Day has you covered. The duo behind Beach Day also seem to be growing with every release. They’ve always had a special way with melody, but the new material feels expansive, warm, and lived in. There is growth in everything from the production to the harmonies, but that’s not to say that they still don’t sound up close and personal. It’s really wonderful to hear the band’s nostalgic pop sound expanded and explored, and they are absolutely game. In a few weeks, their new album “Native Echoes” drops from Kanine Records and with songs like the sweetly woozy “BFFs” on hand, Beach Day feel primed for a well deserved blow up. Highly recommended. 


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This is great. Not all stories are worth telling the world about, that’s for sure.

One of the very smartest things I’ve heard in a very, very long time

Thank God someone has finally said this.

thank you.

adteachings - you circulate such great stuff. Thank you.

I watched this video this morning and got really pissed off. I was going to let it slide, but as I was going about my day it got under my skin more and more and I’ll tell you why.

This guy is so full of shit.

I know it’s easy to like this video because he’s a famous guy and he’s kind of funny and snarky and he calls somebody “fuckhead”, but if you unpack it even a little bit you’ll find that his platitudes about storytelling are absolutely false, hollow and pretentious. 

First off uses the word “storyteller” as if it’s some qualitative badge of honor. Something that must be earned and is only bestowed upon the truly gifted. This is like when people go to a museum and see something that’s outside of their realm of comfort, understanding or preference and say “that’s not art”. I’m terribly sorry but you don’t get to choose what’s art and what’s not art. You can subjectively choose whether you like it or not, but either way it’s art. That’s why it’s so fascinating in the first place, because it’s a fluid notion and it’s sticky and messy and not clearly defined. You have to think about it and decide for yourself. 

It’s the same with stories, if somebody is telling a story they are a storyteller. You might think Michael Bay’s movies are horseshit (I don’t) but he’s still a storyteller. I don’t care if you think a story is worth telling, or boring or bullshit. It’s still a story and to say otherwise is paternalistic and elitist.

The second part that pisses me off is his notion of what a story is. He exclusively cites people who write novels and make feature films as people who “actually tell stories”.  This is the most dull, narrow understanding of what a story is that I’ve ever heard. 

First off, do short stories and short films not count? What about paintings? This painting by Edward Hopper packs more story and emotion into one canvas than many feature films can fit into two hours. How can you not look at this for even five seconds and glean a dozen things about these people, their relationship and their lives. Is this not storytelling?

What about this photograph by Gregory Crewdson? It’s pretty hard to look at this and say that photographers aren’t storytellers.

Painting and photography feel like kind of a given, what about music? Are you saying a symphony by Dvorak doesn’t tell a story? 

You can go even further down that path if you choose. What about dance? Abstract art? Architecture? What about SnapChat and vlogs? Are these not considered storytelling? You may not necessarily like or understand how a particular medium could tell stories, some of them may not be considered classic or “highbrow”, but that doesn’t change the fact that they’re storytelling.

One of my favorite plays is Art by Yasmina Reza which is about a man who buys a painting that is just a white canvas with three faint lines drawn on it. The man’s friends lambast his purchase, descrying it as bullshit, meaningless and pretentious art with no worth or story behind it. But as the play goes on and they vigorously argue and discuss and ponder both the piece in front of them and art itself, they eventually each find their own personal meaning and narrative in the work. 

That’s what art and storytelling is all about. Serving as a mirror to ourselves, showing us bits and pieces of our own personalities and lives. Storytelling doesn’t have to just be a traditional, linearly structured narrative. Sure it can be, and it’s great when it is, but at it’s heart it’s about the transference of emotion, history and experience from one human to another.

I feel that Mr. Sagmeister doesn’t want to take the time to think about art and stories. His wants his stories spoon-fed to him in neat, traditional narrative arcs that take the form of novels and feature films and that’s fine. Clearly I loveboth. But to say that anything else isn’t storytelling is pompous and completely untrue.

There are many different kinds of stories out there and I’m happy to enjoy them all. 

This video is some elitist, misinformed bullshit.

Chapter Thirteen


Calvin and Hobbes


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Carrie Brownstein fully intends on killing you.

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Just in case you wanted to know what girls look like shotgunning beers.

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"The night we’d spent talking had moved me, but it was one of those experiences you want to put under glass and keep whole and separate forever, like an intense one-night stand. You share so much, make yourself so vulnerable, because there is to be no second act, no consequences."
Stephanie Ye, The Billion Shop (via poetrist)
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Franz Kafka, the story goes, encountered a little girl in the park where he went walking daily. She was crying. She had lost her doll and was desolate.

Kafka offered to help her look for the doll and arranged to meet her the next day at the same spot. Unable to find the doll he composed a letter from the doll and read it to her when they met.

"Please do not mourn me, I have gone on a trip to see the world. I will write you of my adventures." This was the beginning of many letters. When he and the little girl met he read her from these carefully composed letters the imagined adventures of the beloved doll. The little girl was comforted.

When the meetings came to an end Kafka presented her with a doll. She obviously looked different from the original doll. An attached letter explained: “my travels have changed me… “

Many years later, the now grown girl found a letter stuffed into an unnoticed crevice in the cherished replacement doll. In summary it said: “every thing that you love, you will eventually lose, but in the end, love will return in a different form.”


May Benatar, Kafka and the Doll: The Pervasiveness of Loss

For me there are two wise lessons in this story: Grief and loss are ubiquitous even for a young child. And the way toward healing is to look for how love comes back in another form. - May Benatar

(via unpunk)

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"Elsewhere the world may be blustering or sleeping, wars are fought, people live and die, some nations disintegrate, while others are born, soon to be swallowed up in turn—and in all this sound and fury, amidst eruptions and undertows, while the world goes its merry way, bursts into flames, tears itself apart and is reborn: human life continues to throb.

So, let us drink a cup of tea."
Muriel Barbery, The Elegance of the Hedgehog (via poetrist)
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